to firmly hug
someone and hold them with one arm close and tight, preferably with your dominate arm for strength purposes, then slowly slide your free hand
down that person's back, spreading their meat-cheeks
with your hands and penetrating
their chocolate starfish with your fingers, thus a forced reach-around
My girl friend broke up with me so I asked for one last hug goodbye, needless to say it was a "left handed hug".